I want to make something clear since everyone seems to think i am a terrible person, at least hear the other side of the story.  When i talk to whitney every time she flaunts her new boyfriend around, or she does it via xanga like her post right after our arguement (think it was a coincident if you want, she has admitted she did it to hurt me before), and while i see no problem with her having a new boyfriend I do get hurt when she compares how much better he is than me, whether rightfully so or not.   I don't like being hurt and thus suggested we don't talk to each other, so i wouldn't get hurt and we wouldn't argue like we do every time we talk to each other lately.  Apparently this makes me a terrible person. 

I don't believe whitney did anything wrong in moving on and forward, and I never did, she did it a little faster than i expected or was ready for, but she did nothing wrong.  It is every other reason that has me shying away from being her friend, such as comments like "your a sorry excuse for a human being, no really, you are" and the like, and this is while she was trying to get me to be her friend, i can't wait till she stops tiptoeing around...

And PS, i don't start every arguement, and whitney has admittedly done things just to piss me off.  I'm not saying hate whitney, she has every reason to be emotional and do emotional things and I know that, but I'm just trying to show people where I'm coming from cause whitney seems hell bent on making everyone think I am the biggest asshole the world has ever known, and i don't see what i really did wrong.